What make parents to put pressure on their children to get high marks:social status or high fee?

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The pressure on children to get high marks is not about high fee or social status, it's only about their high profiled career. Everyone wants that their children should get best studies n best career line in their life, that's why they spend money extravagantly for making career of their children and do what they can do. And without the pressure of parents child can't understand that he or she has to work hard to make bright career as they are child and not aware about their future.

Competitions in every field is very tough.And after doing hard work students can exist in the flow. By getting high marks in SC and SSC one can easily choose their Field and get admission in professional courses like IITs,MBA,CA and whatever they like.

But in choosing their field parents should not pressurize their children.Even parents should lead them in that field in which they are excel or they can do better.

So,the conclusion is everyone wants that their children should stand in front of line,so they have to be strict for children.

Comments

Mahee said…
Every parent should realize that, Our kids are our DNAs - "not only our's, our family's DNA". They do what exactly we did and not only in actions, thoughts too.. thats the most powerful tool.
So, It's our job to make sure our kids understand the Cause and Effect Theory (not only in the science), like ' If the kid is asking ice-cream in the winter, you should explain the EFFECT here, like if you eat ice-cream in the winter you will easily get cold, coz the temperature is already very cold, so, you can eat ice-cream in the spring or summer, that time the temperature won't be cold, you can protect your health, also you won't spread your cold to your friends or mom and dad". We have to just explain them, the do's and dont's. We don't have to intentionally pressure the kids.. In the matter of period, the Cause and Effect will work. After that they will be able to think "which one is good, will that give harm to others, Is that good for the Society..."
October 22, 2012 at 11:57 AM
Arti said…
Put pressure on kids is not only the way , i completely agree!!
thanks for sharing your thought with us Mahee.
September 2, 2013 at 11:15 AM
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